Serano discusses the “predator/prey mindset” which is the source of the double standards in our society. The mindset determines that women are sexual objects and men are sexual aggressors. This leads to negative stereotypes for both men and women. It creates a stereotype that women raping men is simply not a thing, or that men can’t be victims to sexual assault or harassment. This mindset views women as “prey”. Women are not supposed to embrace their sexuality and if they do, they are subjecting themselves to be preyed upon. This turns the page into victim-blaming in situations of men sexually harassing, assaulting, or even raping women. For example, the often-asked question “well what was she wearing?” punishes women for embracing themselves and feeling empowered. It is used as an excuse for men who can’t control themselves.
